What You Need to Focus when Dating Online
My best friend Nancy told me she made a new boyfriend. I was astonished because I just thought she was single now after breaking up with her boyfriend for two weeks. In such a short time, she can find a new boyfriend. Yes, I am also single and I want to find nice guy who can know me. I know it is hard but I will try my best. Then, I asked her how to find her boyfriend. Then, she told me she knew her boyfriend from the BBW dating site.
Well, I know some people who have found their lover from Tinder and Bumble but I don’t believe it because I don’t want to take a risk. For me, knowing people from some top dating apps can be a double-sword. Yes, some people can be really considerate and they may be my lover.
But I am also afraid to meet the people I never want to understand like scams. It is common for me to know some people who have been cheated online and this can be a dangerous sign for me. But now, after the encouragement of our best friend, I decide to have a try. She shares her experience with me and gives me some tips if I have my first date with strangers from some most used dating apps.
She tells me that I should make other people know where I am. Well, it seems to be an easy task. Before you go to a local dating, you should tell your friends or your sister that you will see the person you never know. Telling to an open-mined one is enough. After all, you don’t want to hear the voice from your parents. Nancy always asks her cousin for help because her cousin also uses some local dating sites. Now, some apps allows GPS sharing and you can send the people so that they can know where you are.
You should avoid telling much about your private information. Yes, I can understand that you may tell the people who are interested the things about you in daily life but this doesn’t mean that you can tell everything. Don't tell him exactly where you live or work, or any other information that might allow him to find you outside of your date. It may sound paranoid, but trust me, it's important for your safety.
Actually, I am afraid to meet people from some tinder dating apps because I have gt some trouble. I met a guy online and we had great date. I told him where I was working. But after the third date, I found we might not match. To be surprise, he came to my company and waited for me. He threatened me and asked me why I couldn’t reply to him anymore. I was so scary and in the end, I called the police. Then, the police told me this guy had some physical issue. Well, it sounds to be a huge mistake and since then, I never dated with people I never know.
You should believe your intuition. No matter you are male or female, you should trust your intuition. Why? Most people can have the first judgement on some strangers at the first sight, which is important for us to have different impression on people. When you find something goes wrong, you should leave and say goodbye.
As this is your first date with a stranger, you don’t need to worry much. Nancy told me she also met a rude guy who just wanted to find one night date with less time and energy. When she sat down, this guy just said how about going to his apartment to have fun. Yes, at that time, she just said sorry and left. When we meet the bad people we never want to date with, you can be brave to say no.
It is known to all that find the destiny person in real life is much harder than we know but giving up is a choice for coward. We can be brave and find suitable people from some top dating apps, too.